Co.Founders with THE MAKHS
Lerato and Phetola Makhetha, digital content creators based in Johannesburg, South Africa, host this podcast. As parents of three daughters, they focus on building legacy and fostering connection among couples and families. The show aims to create a space for meaningful impact and mutual support.
Episodes
Thato & Lebo Rampedi on: Faith, Their Childhood & Building A Legacy As Brothers
In this honest conversation, Thato and Lebo Rampedi reflect on what it means to grow up as brothers, navigating sibling rivalry, competing for attention and the family dynamics that shape who we become.Together, they explore how childhood experiences influence manhood, relationships, leadership and the way men build families and communities. They also share how faith, accountability, and intention
Tokoloho & Tinyiko Mokale on : A Love That Leads, Being Fiercely Loyal & Lasting Friendship
In this episode of Here’s A Thought, we sit down with TK & Tinyiko for a heartfelt conversation about the foundation of a lasting marriage. From friendship, love and respect to leadership, submission and navigating life’s challenges together, they share the values and intentional choices that have shaped their relationship. This is an honest conversation about building a marriage that thrives
Nolo Mokoena on: Being Single, Whole & Called | Beyond “Until I’m Married”
Ever wondered what a man’s perspective on singleness really is?In this episode, we sit down with Nolo Mokoena, whose sharp mind and thoughtful insights make for a conversation that is both refreshing and deeply challenging. Together, we unpack what it means to be a single Christian man in today’s world, the importance of showing up authentically and why both singleness and marriage are holy.In tru
Dr Jerry and Claudine Makhetha: What IS The Purpose Of Marriage?
What Is Marriage Actually For?Many couples spend years learning how to be married without first understanding why they are married.Today, marriages are increasingly strained under the weight of unrealistic expectations, disappointment, conflict, emotional exhaustion, and unmet needs. As we watch more relationships struggle, one question continues to surface: Have many of us entered marriage withou
Sanelisiwe Ngcobo on Homeownership, Identity & Living Authentically | BEFORE YOU BUY A HOME
We’ve literally made all the mistakes in our lifetime so that you don’t have to. Before you buy a home, please watch this conversation.Sanelisiwe is a real estate lawyer, a qualified attorney, notary and conveyancer. In this instalment, we go beyond homeownership and unpack identity and legacy, what it truly means to build a life, not just acquire property.Homeownership is more than a piece of lan
Tiisetso Kgomo: Navigating Life After Divorce
We sometimes break in public, so why are we expected to heal in private? In this deeply honest episode, we sit down with Tiisetso Kgomo to explore what it truly means to heal out loud. We reflect on a culture that often witnesses our breaking in public spaces, yet still expects our healing to happen quietly, privately and without disruption.Together, we unpack the pressure to “have it together,” t
Ntsako & Yanga Khoza on The Truth About Getting Married Young
We sit down with the beautiful Ntsako and Yanga Khoza for an honest conversation about faith, marriage, and building a life together at a young age.How did they know they were ready for marriage? What lessons have they learned along the way? And what does it practically look like to keep God at the center of a relationship?Join us as we unpack their joys, challenges and growth. #marriedyoung #chri
Precious The Planner: What Wedding Planning Exposes About Marriage
Ushering people into one of the greatest covenants of their lives is holy work and Precious does it with the utmost respect for the calling and excellence in everything she touches.One thing that stood out in our conversation: wedding planning is often a preview of marriage.How your partner handles finances, communication, pressure, conflict and keeping their word during this time often reflects h
Lehasa & Cleo Moloi on Love, Trauma & Raising a Child With Special Needs
In this instalment, we sit down with the Molois for a conversation on loving each other through all seasons. From love at first sight, to healing from childhood trauma, raising a daughter with special needs and learning how to become a safe space for one another. This was honest, vulnerable and deeply moving.#christianmarriage #motherwound #fatherwound #specialneeds #marriage #love
In Sickness And In Health: With Yonda Thomas and Dr Taz
“In sickness and in health…”They’re words we all say, but how many of us truly understand the weight of that covenant when life gets hard?In this installment, Yonda and Dr. Taz take us through their journey of trusting God in the midst of it all. From navigating a life-threatening diagnosis to what it truly means to love your wife as Christ loves the church, this conversation is a powerful picture
THINGS THAT WE'RE STILL FIGURING OUT
In marriage we have learnt to give up on the idea of arriving at a place where everything makes sense. The beauty of the journey remains in relying on God to constantly refine us in depending on him to truly love one another.Today we share some of the pain points as we endeavour to learn and grow with each other as well as with you.Enjoy!
THE ART OF CHOOSING RIGHT | HIS & HERS
We share honest perspectives, him to women, her to men, on what to look for in a partner and what really builds a lasting relationship. This was so much fun for us 😆❤️Please click the link below to join the Co.Founders Circle:https://tinyurl.com/9kmhepaeSee you inside!
FAITH, FAMILY & FRIENDSHIP | IN CONVERSATION WITH OUR TEENAGE DAUGHTER
In this instalment I have a conversation with our 13 year old daughter, Lehakoe about faith, family and friendship. Please note that we are unpacking this episode on Tuesday @ 7pm. LINK TO FOLLOW❤️
FROM FRICTION TO PARTNERSHIP | AMOS 3:3
In relationships, it’s easy to fight to prove a point. But often the cost of being right is disconnection. Choosing humility, listening and understanding each other can matter far more than winning the argument.Sometimes love looks like laying down your pride to protect the relationship, because the goal isn’t to win against each other, it’s to win together.Join us this Tuesday @ 7PM to unpack the
YOUR STRUGGLE IS YOUR MINISTRY | HELLO CO.FOUNDERS
DreamTeam, we are excited to be back with a new Name, Vision and Mission.Join us as we take you on a journey of the who, what, where, how and when of Co.Founders. FEEDBACK SESSIONS EVERY TUESDAY @18:00 Link: ...
WANDILE AND JESSICA MOLEBATSI ON: Racial Prejudice | Cultural Diversity | Love & Unity
In this powerful and candid episode, we sit down with Wandile and Jessica Molebatsi, who share their personal journey of navigating racial prejudice, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and the challenges of being misunderstood by society. Through their experiences, they open up about the unique hurdles they’ve faced as an inter racial couple, from confronting implicit biases and ster
Gc LUKHELE ON: DIVORCE | SUFFERING WELL & HEALING
As a platform dedicated to supporting and advocating for marriage, we understand that sometimes relationships don’t work out the way we hope. Divorce is a painful and difficult experience for everyone involved—men, women, and especially children. In this installment, we want to acknowledge the deep emotional impact of divorce, while offering insight into the healing process and the role forgivenes
WE’RE BACK IN THERAPY! | Feeling Disrespected & UnSeen?
We’re back in counseling, and it feels like a new chapter. There’s a lingering issue we’ve been navigating, one that has kept us from seeing eye to eye.
What we cherish most about this season of therapy is the growth we’ve experienced as individuals. We’ve learned to disagree with love, to listen deeply to one another’s feelings, and to unite in pursuit of our shared goals. It’s a journey of und
THE MAKHS ON: EMIGRATION | SURRENDER | THE NEXT SEASON OF OUR LIVES
Are we leaving South Africa? The past three years have woven a tapestry of hope, joy, sorrow and everything in between. It is in the valley that we encountered the God who beckons us to surrender.
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Uviwe and Unako On: Backsliding | God's heart for man & The men in the church
The question was, where are the men in the church? Today, we sit down with Uviwe and Unako—our own David and Jonathan—to discuss backsliding and finding your way back to God. We explore God’s heart for men and what is required to equip them to walk in holiness.
These young men show us what true pursuit of Christ looks like and what it means to search for the heart of God.
LERATO MAKHETHA ON: Overcoming Drugs | Finding Identity | Receiving Grace & Acceptance
In today's heartfelt installment, I sit down with my husband of 14 years to reflect on his vibrant childhood and the choices he made in his younger years that led him away from his relationship with God. He has faced the difficult journey of drug addiction which led him to being a missionary at the age of 17 at an organization called Youth For Christ in Cape Town.
Over the next few years, he wres
Too Stressed For Sex? | A Man's Perspective
Not initiating sex can leave individuals feeling emotionally bruised and struggling with low self-esteem, often creating a sense of insecurity within a relationship. This issue isn't solely about desirability; various factors, such as stress and mental health, can impact one's libido and ability to engage.
For many, societal expectations dictate that men should always be eager for sex, leading t
BONKO & LESEGO KHOZA ON: Faith | Evolution & Being in alignment
Bonko and Lesego Khoza‘s marriage is like a heartwarming romcom, revealing a deep connection that spoke volumes even before their first words. Now, as parents to Ama, their love story continues to unfold beautifully, a testament to their belief in surrendering their lives to God.
Bonko and Lesego Thank you so much for coming to break bread with us❤️
MOGALE & KABELO MOHALE ON: Vulnerability | Finding healing & choosing each other over & over
Mogale and Kabelo Mohale let us in on rising from the ashes. They speak candidly about how challenging the past 2 years have been on them. We know that growth can be hard, at times even messy however we are comforted knowing that diamonds are produced from very high pressure and temperatures.
This beautiful couple are such a great testament of what it means to choose each other, over and over. B
FAMILY TRADITIONS: WHAT TO KEEP, WHAT MUST GO
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MARRIED PEOPLE, STOP THIS!
When it comes to inquiring about the state of a married couple's relationship, it's wise to tread lightly, for they often tend to emphasize the challenges. Marriage, without a doubt, is a profound blessing and a precious gift, albeit one that demands effort.
It has the capacity to stretch individuals and may occasionally create discomfort during personal growth. Nevertheless, the rewards
LEADERSHIP IN MARRIAGE | What does it look like?
We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective.
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WHY WE STOPPED VLOGGING | *THE REAL REASON
We took a break from Vlogging and this is whhy…Vlogging can create a sense of detachment and disconnection from the people and experiences that truly matter. In addition, it can create a sense of pressure to constantly create content, leading to a never-ending cycle of filming, editing, and uploading. This can leave little room for downtime or relaxation, and can negatively impact mental and emoti
MY WIFE STRUGGLES WITH SUBMISSION | Submission & Leadership
The topic of submission can be a contentions one. What is submission? What does it look like? Does it look different for different couples? What's God design for submission? How does poor leadership affect submission? We unpack...
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UNSCRIPTED| Thabo Bester | Dalai Lama | Things that shocked us this week
We discuss things that shocked us this past week...
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IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO SHOOT THEIR SHOT?
Should women pursue men? Ask them out or even propose marriage? We would love to hear from you.
#themakhs #dating #women
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FRIENDSHIP
Ever heard the saying, “show me your friends, I’ll tell you who you are”? In this instalment we discuss how our friendships have shaped who are.
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STORY TIME | IS IT WORTH SAVING FOR A BIG WEDDING?
We spend so much time investing in the wedding day and forget to invest in the marriage itself. The question is, is it worth saving for a big wedding… Let’s unpack♥️ #wedding #justmarried #themakhs
MY WIFE QUIT SOCIAL MEDIA * This is what happened
This year when my wife did the annual Daniel Fast she made a decision to also quit social media for that period.. The results were incredible! Have you ever been on a social media fast? What was it like for you? Would you recommend it? #socialmedia #danielfast #themakhs
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DR JERRY & MAMA CLAUDINE: SECRETS TO A LASTING MARRIAGE
In our first instalment of 2023, we speak with the Makhs Seniors (Ntate Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha & Mama Claudine) . We discuss some secrets to a healthy marriage. This is the year of healing and restoration♥️ To order your copy of I am a man/ I am a woman please call/WhatsApp the number below: Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367 For premarital & marriage counsell
7 THINGS/IDEAS TO LEAVE IN 2022 | Past Hurts | Who you/your partner used to be & more
As we approach year end, it’s always a beautiful time to reflect on the year that was, In life and love.
As people we usually approach the new year with a lot of hope. Hope for a new dawn.
As we give ourselves time to reflect and introspect, let’s look at some of the things we need to let go of, and leave in 2022.
IS YOUR PARTNER INTIMIDATED BY YOUR SUCCESS?
When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other.
What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other?
How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa?
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REJECTED AND OVERLOOKED
Ever felt like you’ve put in the work, showed up and worked harder than the next person and was still overlooked? Being overlooked can sometimes bring about feelings of rejection, be it in marriage, at the workplace or in life. We look at how we can deal with those feelings in a healthy way and understanding that season of our lives.
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SHOULD YOU ASK FOR PERMISSION FROM YOUR PARTNER?
In today’s instalment we unpack whether it is necessary to ask for permission from your partner. From going out, the clothes we wear and the money we spend? As always we would love to hear from you. Please do weigh in…
PARENTING THROUGH HIS / HER EYES
PARENTING THROUGH HIS / HER EYES
HOW HONEST CAN YOU BE WITH YOUR PARTNER?
It’s not always easy letting our partners know that they might have a body odour issue, or that things aren’t that amazing in the bedroom. Have you ever been in that situation? If so how did you handle it?
10 SIGNS HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
Let’s believe when they tell us who they are…
SO… ABOUT CHURCH GUYS & GIRLS
There’s a lot of apprehension from church girls to date men in the church and vice versa.
We unpack this in our current instalment♥️
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Adulting 101 | Are you covered?
Are you doing what is necessary to ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of?
ALTER EGO | CAN YOU COMPLETELY BE YOURSELF AROUND YOUR PARTNER?
Do you have an alter-ego and are you comfortable with sharing that part yourself with your partner?
Comment below to share your thoughts.
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THE GOD STORY | RETRENCHMENT RELOADED
In todays instalment, Phetola shares on how God walked with her through the valley of her retrenchment journey.
MARRIED PERSON vs SIDE | WHO SHOULD UPHOLD THE MARRIAGE VOWS
Who should be held responsible or accountable in an affair.
The married party or the side? We unpack.
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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER LEHAKOE | SELF IMAGE | GOD | HELPING THE POOR
In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future...
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MARRIED COUPLES HAVE LESS SEX | TRUE OR FALSE
We’ve all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth? If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a satisfying sex life in marriage♥️
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THE PRESSURE TO FIT IN
Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out? We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs that Love and Belonging are a huge psychological need. Therefore people may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or so they don't feel awkward or uncomfortable. In today’s instalment we unpack the pressures of try
ARE GENDER ROLES STILL RELEVANT?
In a world where some women are earning more than their partners and some men choose to be stay at home dads, are gender roles still relevant?
DATING | WHAT DATING ADVICE WOULD WE GIVE OUR DAUGHTER or YOUNGER SELVES
In celebration of the month of love, we unpack what dating advice we would give our daughters or our younger selves♥️
COMMUNICATION HACKS FOR HIM
Today we discuss Communication Hacks For HIM.
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COMMUNICATION HACKS FOR HER
We get a lot of people asking us whether we ever fight.
Well…we disagree a lot less these days.
A lot of our arguments stemmed from miscommunication.
Today we share Communication Hacks For Her.
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REACTION PODCAST: DEVON FRANKLIN & MEAGAN GOOD DIVORCE| WHEN MARRIAGE FAILS
In today’s instalment we react to Meagan Good and Devon Franklin’s divorce.
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IS IT OKAY FOR MY HUSBAND TO KISS OTHER WOMEN?
In today’s PODCAST we discuss the complexities of dating an actor.
What are the rules of engagement and where do we draw the line.
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GIRLFRIEND & WIFE ALLOWANCE
Do you believe in girlfriend or wife allowance? Let's discuss this hot topic.
Feel free to share your views with us.
Love, The Makhs
Grey Areas and The Opposite Sex
There are so many disputes that are birthed through the contentious subject of the opposite sex and exes in relationships. Today we share our perspectives based on our personal experience.
How to bring your marriage back from a dead place
In todays' instalment we discuss the lessons learnt while finding our marriage in a dead place.
Our lobolo / lobola (bride price) story
In today's instalment we share our lobolo journey. The good, the bad and the funny.
Join us as we take a trip down memory lane.
Love Out Loud
To love out loud means to love boldly and freely without any reservations. When we love out loud, we inspire others to do the same. Let’s spread the love
Single and Satisfied with THE MAKHS SENIORS
There is nothing inherently wrong with being single, and there is nothing inherently good about being in a relationship. We often look at marriage as the grand prize. In today's instalment, we unpack navigating being single and satisfied.
Love, #TheMakhs
Childhood Traumas And Relationships
What does childhood trauma look like in adults? Childhood trauma in adults can impact experiences and relationships with others due to experienced feelings of shame, and guilt. Childhood trauma also results in feeling disconnected, and being unable to relate to others. Let's discuss...
How to keep dating within your marriage
Mjolo (dating) doesn’t have to be a pandemic. In this instalment we encourage you to date beyond marriage. Remain forever girlfriends/boyfriends
Finances Nearly Ruined Our Marriage
Financial problems and financial stress can impact your relationship or marriage in many different ways. Your health, emotional and physical intimacy, and home can all be negatively affected by money matters...
Today we share our personal story of the impact finances has had on our relationship.
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Is Marriage Overrated?
In a modern age, being single is no longer a life stage but a state of being, relished by thriving solo communities around the world.
Despite this, we still tend to put marriage on a pedestal. Getting wed equals radiant couples searching for wild flower arrangements on Pinterest, or marking the #5years mark with tasteful black and white snaps on Insta.
More than a milestone, it’s an entrenched cul
