Love. Life. Legacy.
Love. Life. Legacy. is a weekly podcast hosted by Tiisetso Thabana that explores the big themes of everyday life. Each episode looks at relationships, career development and spiritual growth, offering guidance for navigating major life transitions. The show aims to encourage listeners to build meaningful connections and to grow personally and professionally. It blends practical advice with reflective conversation to help people move toward a purposeful legacy.
Episodes
Do You Want It or Do You Want to Look Like You Have It?
Do you want the life, the relationship, the degree, the business —or do you want to look like the kind of person who has it?In this episode of Love Life Legacy, Tiisetso explores the difference between performance and stewardship — and why so many things fall apart after we get what we prayed for.From MBAs and marriage to parenting and business, this episode is a reflection on the quiet, invisible
Self-Sabotage: When You Get in Your Own Way
Are you secretly standing in the way of your own dreams?In this episode of Love Life Legacy, we delve into the subtle patterns of self-sabotage — including procrastination, perfectionism, and toxic comfort zones — and the often silent ways we block our own blessings.We’ll also dive into why fear of success can feel just as paralysing as fear of failure, and share practical steps to rewire your min
Love or a Learned Wound?
When we fall in love, are we truly choosing love - or are we repeating a wound we’ve rehearsed for years?In this episode, I share my own reflections on how love and pain can look deceptively similar, how we sometimes confuse intensity with intimacy, and what it takes to break free from unhealthy cycles.You’ll hear:The difference between real love and a learned woundSigns you might be repeating old
Work-Life Balance: How to Do It, and Should You?
Balancing work, life, and everything in between often feels impossible, and sometimes, it is. In this episode, I share my personal journey as a mom of three, a product manager, and an MBA student navigating the ups and downs of career growth, parenting, and individual change after divorce.Together, we’ll explore the myth vs. reality of work-life balance, whether you should even try to balance, and
Are you settling for less?
What is the difference between settling for less and just being realistic?
Should I go? Should I stay?
Navigating infidelity in marriage.
The R word - Regret
It’s okay to make mistakes but never regret them.
2024 - The year of the comeback!!!
As the self-proclaimed “Comeback Queen” I have decided to share some tips and tricks on how to come back to your truest self. Bounce back from any situation and start 2024 well!
Secrets of fascinating womanhood - Part II
Today we continue the series on the secrets of fascinating womanhood. Follow me on Instagram @tiisworld and DM me for a chat.
Secrets of fascinating womanhood - Part I
Today I’m sharing some secrets I learned from a book that saved my marriage. Apply this first secret for a week and tell me how it goes.
Challenges faced by housewives
A short summary of the challenges faced by housewives and stay at home moms.
SPECIAL - What Pregnancy Taught Me
It is the anniversary of my 3rd baby shower so in this special episode I reflect on my pregnancy.
Do gender roles matter? (with Nsizwa Mutasa)
In today's episode we discuss the impact gender roles have on relationships and we open up the discussion whether they are still relevant in this day and age.
The law with in-laws (with Nsizwa Mutasa)
In this episode we discuss how to balance the dynamic of of in-laws that exists within marriages. For our previous episode on Love across cultures and religion please visit https://anchor.fm/tiisetsomutasa/episodes/Love-across-cultures-and-religions-emgg4g
Men & MENtal Health (with Nsizwa Mutasa)
In today's episode we discuss how men struggle with mental health on a daily basis.
How to spot red flags (The Tinder Swindler) - with Nsizwa Mutasa
Today we discuss relationship red flags that were displayed in the latest Netflix documentary (The Tinder Swindler)
Why we suck at relationships. (with Nsizwa Mutasa)
Today we discuss the various ways we unconsciously sabotage our relationships. Please remember send your questions and comments to lovelifelegacypodcast@gmail.com.
Are you the one - Compatibility in relationships
Today my husband and I discuss the importance of compatibility in relationships.
The Invisible Woman - The 'Nanny' Conversation. (with Thato Chobokoane)
Today I am interviewing Lesotho’s Gender Specialist and Women’s Rights Advocate Ms Thato Chobokoane exploring the issue of the invisibility of women in industry and especially the care work industry. Please follow Thato on Instagram @Thato_Chobokoane and leave a review via email to lovelifelegacy@gmail.com if you're not on a podcast platform that allows for reviews.
How to align your dreams to your love journey
In this episode, my husband Nsizwa and I unpack, from personal experience, how to best approach aligning individual goals to overarching relationship goals.
Looking back on 2021!!! I'm back....
In this episode I explain my reasons for the long sabbatical by welcoming baby Osindile to the LLL family. I briefly unpack all my lessons from the year 2021 and welcome with pure excitement the year to come.
When to let go.
In this episode I share some tips on how to let go of a relationship that no longer serves you. It’s uncut and unpolished because I want to be as authentic as possible. There are moments when one needs to fight for their relationship and this quick segment will showcase when to let go. There are moments that pause as a result of international ads (a girl has to get paid), I apologize for that in a
Why I've been gone - My journey with PCOS
I took an unexpected sabbatical at the beginning of 2021 after I got some bad news from the doctor. This is a short explanation for my disappearance and a small window into what I have been going through. I know it is not the same format that you are used to but it's real and it's me. I left it unedited and uncut because I needed it to be authentic and if there's one thing I'd love for women to ta
A walk with God - Life as a born again Christian
Today I am joined by my ex-colleague and friend, we're discussing he journey with God. She shares how she has overcome some of her challenges by leaning on her faith and she shares how we can embrace our own journeys by strengthening our walk with the Holy Spirit.
Find Naledi on Facebook @MamkhuluNadz or on Instagram @lady_nadz27.
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The "C" word - Children
In today's episode we're discussing the impact children have on relationships. We unpack what you need to look out for when deciding to have children and share our experiences of having children and how our marriage weathered the storm of having additions to the pack. I hope you enjoy.
Send me your questions to lovelifelegacy@gmail.com and remember to visit www.lovelifelegacy.co.za and follow me o
Living and thriving with a rare disease
Today I am speaking to Nthabeleng Ramoeli. She is the founder of the Rare Diseases Lesotho Association (RDLA) and she is living with a rare disease called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) which is a connective tissue disorder. She explains the challenges she has faced from living with a rare disease, to self-diagnosing and having to educate her doctors. She has lived an extraordinary life but ha
Friendship & Marriage
Today we're discussing the roles friends play in a marriage, from single friends to friends of the opposite sex. We're also chatting about the importance of friendship within your marriage and giving some tips and tricks on how to cultivate friendship within your marriage.
[BONUS - READING] I am enough poem by Adam Roa.
This is a poem I listen to as a reminder that I am enough. The link to the original poem is - https://youtu.be/It0cwbszJ14.
Love across cultures and religions
In this week's episode my husband and I will be sharing our experiences around dating and getting married across cultural and religious backgrounds. Coming from Southern Africa which is the melting pot of a variety of creeds we have seen the beauty and joy the exposure brings as well as the tension it can bring.
I hope you enjoy this episode. Please send any questions or comments to me via s
A journey of self-discovery during the single years
Today I am joined by my friend Nyasha Kavhumbura and we're discussing all the challenges that single women face. We also discuss how God can still move in the lives of single women and share ways in which one can grow spiritually during this season.
How to survive the quarter-life crisis - ambition, anxiety & courage
In this episode my 'little sister' and I discuss how loss, anxiety and depression can cause so much pain for millennials. We unpack the hardest parts of her life's journey and she sheds some light on how to successfully overcome those challenging parts. The biggest lesson being "be courageous enough to chase your dreams".
How love and money collide.
In this episode we discuss the challenges that money can bring to a relationship. We will be offering tips on how to communicate in the area of finances and how to ask the right questions so that you can get the most data to equip your partnership to thrive financially. Enjoy and remember to subscribe, comment and leave a review.
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How to quit your job and become a housewife.
Today's episode is a conversation between my husband, Nsizwa and myself around how we came about deciding on to move to a one income household. It outlines the questions we asked ourselves before taking the plunge and our experience of the reality of our decision. I hope you enjoy.
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Why I decided to start a podcast.
This episode will outline the reasons Love.Life.Legacy was born and the format it will take in the coming weeks.
